TikTok user shares list of 'red flags' she learned from her 'toxic' engagement

TikTok user shares list of 'red flags' she learned from her 'toxic' engagement

A woman is going viral after sharing the list of“red flags” she wishes she’d recognized earlierin her engagement, which she broke off afterfinding out her fiancé was cheating on her.Devin Allen, one of the founders of thebreakup advice blog, d.i.y.

BreakUp, postedthe warning signs in a series of TikTok videos.Her TikToks detail the “toxic” andsuspicious behaviors she now realizes sheshould’ve paid closer attention to.In one video, Allen tells a story aboutseeing her fiancé touching another woman’sthigh in a bar.

She says she confronted himlater on, but he completely denied it.Allen explains in her video that she nowrealizes she was being gaslit.

“I basicallycaught him red-handed,” Allen says.

“And Iapologized and that was the end of the fight”.In another video, Allen recalls a time she waslaying next to her fiancé saw a text containinga photo of another woman appear on his phone.“He had the text saved as one of his friend’snames … He said the friend was cheating witha woman they went to high school with, and hewas showing off by sending these videos”.“Of course I believed him, [and] requiredno further explanation,” Allen adds.Her clips, which have received tens ofthousands of views, have drawn plentyof praise from other commenters.“Thank you!!!

Needed an account like yours rightnow,” one user wrote.

“These red flag stories areso good for those who have fortunately neverhad to learn the hard way,” another added