No, you don’t “have it worse”

No, you don’t “have it worse”

Dating can suck.

Heartbreak sucks.

Waiting on God can suck.

It’s ok (and necessary!) to feel the pain and the realness of that.

But if you’re not constantly evolving into the next best version of yourself, if you’re not the best man or woman YOU can be, then you really have business pointing fingers at “women nowadays” or “men nowadays.” Life is always a gamble.

Love is always a gamble.

Marriage is always a gamble.

There are NO guarantees in anything or anyone other than God.

You do not “have it worse,” and you are not special.

Continuing to think so won’t bring you the love you want.